162-Why Sex Matters To Him (A Gift For Your Wife)

17 Oct

I get so many emails from husbands. I want to send a message to their wives…the wife I used to be. I was a wife who saw sex as

  • Sex is dirty
  • Sex is wrong
  • Sex is ungodly
  • Sex is scary
  • He is sinning for wanting it
  • Sex is too much work
  • I don’t like it / it hurts / I don’t know what to do
  • He’s way too interested in sex–not healthy or biblical
  • I don’t have time
  • I don’t have energy
  • What’s in it for me?

And so I avoided it and got resentful that the things I was doing wasn’t appreciated. He kept asking me to learn more… and I got angrier.

Well God has changed my heart on this. I have discovered that God made my husband’s member, and I am his wife. It is my privilege to be a part of intimacy with him. I am his only means of receiving this vital fulfillment righteously.

I believe this podcast will bring you closer to God. If you’re anything like I was, I wish I had known this even before I got married. If I could only understand what sex meant to him. If I could only understand God’s purposes for it.

I pray this would be something husbands can give to their wives (when she’s ready—listen and practice these 3 episodes: Encourage Your Wife’s Sexuality (How A Husband Can Help His Wife Be More Into Sex) 156, 156/157, 157 first).


Podcasts I mention:

Praying for you and your marriage,