96-T: How To Initiate–Heart & Body with Keelie Reason

10 May

How To Initiate - Heart & Body

If you’re not comfortable starting things off in intimacy, this is a discussion you don’t want to miss. Keelie Reason is on a second time to talk about what initiating has meant in her life and how she made a change. We dive into the practical realities of your husband’s sexuality and erections. We also talk about how to dismantle your hesitancy.

Find out more about Keelie Reason at lovehopeadventure.com


You’ll Discover:

  • How to keep a dating relationship pure…very cool strategy.
  • Why you’re not comfortable initiating sex and what that means for the rest of your sexuality.
  • If you’re not initiating, it is communicating something to him.


  • How to understand your body through God’s lense.
  • How shame can undermine your confidence and how to dismantle that.
  • How to understand your husband’s advances as unlike any other man.


  • The different types of a man’s erection.
  • Non-threatening ways to slowly begin initiating more.
  • Put more energy in turning yourself on.

look sexy for my husband




  • Song of Songs
    • Rejoicing in each others’ bodies
    • The wife is often the one who’s initiating

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  • We never had “the talk” it was just a continual conversation about sex as I was growing up.
  • I think initiating is extremely important.
  • Sex was instituted by God and we should take full advantage of enjoying it.


  • God made you incredibly sexy to your husband.
  • In order to have the confidence to initiating, you have to believe in your value.
  • A lot of women have been made to think that their sexuality is something to be ashamed of.


  • I don’t want to look sexy for some guy on the street, but I do want to look sexy for my husband.
  • There are too many marriages where women have been pretending and now they’re tired.
  • Don’t feel like you’re broken if you don’t desire sex.


Thanks for listening! I hope you are encouraged to live in wholehearted intimacy!





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