Are you a husband–one of the good guys–but for some reason, intimacy is just not happening?
Maybe you’re lonely… Maybe you’re heading for divorce…
When she changes clothes in the other room so you can’t see her, when she insists on keeping the light off or the two of you haven’t even had sex in…a long time.
- So what’s keeping your wife back from this?
- Why doesn’t she generously give you this gift?
- Well, I’ll let you know it’s not about you, it’s about her.
If you’ve been trying to convince her, teach her, tell her, even kindly “invited” her to learn these things–and it hasn’t worked… I want you to get out of the pain.
In just a couple of months, I’ve seen men’s marriages transform from a marriage where she never initiated…
where she initiates frequently, flirts and they are having long, deep conversations like they never have before.
I’d like to invite you to learn more about my program: Masculinity Reclaimed: Be respected, enjoy fierce intimacy and feel the joy of being married again!
Sure, life is still messy. And in this life you will continue to have struggles, but if you have the foundation of love and intimacy as a constant in your marriage… that storm will be incredibly less difficult to weather. You’ll have alleviated so much pain that your walk with God can become so much stronger!
But imagine…
- When…fights become “extremely rare”–when before they were “almost every interaction”.
- She’s initiating when “she never has before”.
- Or staying up past 2am, just talking (which had previously only happened before when they were dating 10+ years ago!).
- Things they had never communicated before (like intimacy) at least not in a good way.
- She left. Now she’s back and they’re in their honeymoon stage again!
- And now, God is changing the very tone of their marriage in every way! How would this affect your self-esteem? Your work? Your finances? Your kids!? Your walk with God? How might it even affect eternity?
Discover…
Here are a few more details of the topics covered in the course:
- We need to first get your emotional trust strengthened so that she can really release all tension physically and emotionally,
- We need to teach you what motivates her to change,
- We need you to understand her heart and mind around marriage and sex,
- We need to help you discover the difference in communications between you two,
- We need to help you understand and distinguish the difference between the types of sex so she will actually desire it,
- Have practical guidance on how to introduce specific sexual and non-sexual healing practices,
- With those in place, we can move you on to developing her craving for physical intimacy,
- Slowly reintroduce her physical turn-ons which will then be at that time be enjoyable for her too,
- And throughout we’ll be establishing your confidence and knowledge in how to seduce YOUR WIFE,
- How to effectively communicate your feelings,
- Give her pleasure & joy and
- Be respected & sexually loved with your wife who is free and generous in return!
I have worked with men who were extremely addicted to sexual sin, in affairs or even separated at the time we started working together (see some of the testimonials below from some women too) and that baggage has plagued them as well, but there is hope of complete renewal!
See transformation…
Recent comments that have come in from husbands:
“We have both learned so much from your resources over the years, that I would hate to miss out on further improvement opportunities as I know there are still plenty of things I can do much better as a husband and father.
You have a way of drilling down to the most critical issues and providing actionable steps to take things to the next level…so I know it would be extremely beneficial for our marriage.” -Jeremy
“Honestly, I have tried everything that I know how to try and nothing worked. The only thing that has made a difference is listening to Belah’s podcasts and getting a little more understanding about my wife and her thought patterns.
I’ve listened to numerous podcasts and I don’t think there is anyone who understands intimacy as well as Belah. I have never heard anyone else articulate my thoughts And needs better than Belah, so, I think with the understanding that She has of men and the understanding that she has of women she is probably the only one that can help.” – Kyle
“Like some of the listeners on the podcast said – it is unbelievable to hear someone “at last” understanding what men really want.
It is not just “sex” it is much deeper than that and she understands it!!!
I want to love my wife with all my hart but I am struggling because of her ‘coldness’.” -Larry
Here are some other testimonials…
-A wife who’s husband was kind of ‘blah’ with intimacy and her body emailed the other day: “We’re having an amazing week together. The weekend was wonderful….[Husband] initiated a really cozy night and it was great.
We also had an [intimate experience] that felt very good. We also planned a day off together yesterday and it was totally amazing !!! I’m feeling more turned on throughout the week”
-A wife who’s husband was addicted to video games and not interested in giving her affection or spending time with her said “I surprised him in the couch… never seen him this happy!
He cuddled with me all night, so worth it … [The next day] he’s been talking to the dog, singing, and super happy!!! Wow, what a difference!” This same woman’s husband SURPRISED her by taking off work, making sure there was a babysitter, just to have a fun day with her!
-Another husband was addicted to porn, video games and was emotionally abusive—fast forward after working with me, he’s begun to cherish her, honor her and is so kind to her. I haven’t worked with her since December and she just shared with me that the changes are permanent…they’re now pregnant with their 2nd baby and she didn’t know the sex.
He found out and had a box randomly on the bed that he asked her to open. She did and blue balloons floated up to the ceiling! She said it’s the best surprise of her life. Her husband used to make fun of church now he goes every Sunday and is “best friends” with the pastor.
I put in 100% to support you towards your success, I care deeply about my students’ success, and if you apply for this program and are accepted then you have to bring your own 100% commitment because I will expect nothing less from those in the program!
Here are some students’ experiences…
Would you recommend this course? To whom? Why?
“I am a person who rarely talks about the way I feel. I do not ask for help or show weakness. I keep things bottled up and fight the internal battle to deal with my emotions of my relationship with my wife.
I have never talked to anyone about our marriage. I still find it amazing that I was able to click submit on the form to Belah.
One of the best things I have done. 🙂 “
-Bill
Would you recommend this course? To whom? Why?
I would recommend the course to any man who feels like I did: married to the woman of his dreams, but still feeling depressed, lonely, heartbroken, and hopeless that it will change.
Anyone who feels like your spouse is your roommate instead of your friend and lover. Any man who feels like he’s tried so hard to explain his pain, but still can’t get through to his wife.
Any man who knows he’s not going to get divorced, but feels like he’s headed down the path of a very long, lonely marriage because of his commitment. Any man who has even allowed the word “Divorce” to whisper in the back of his mind, much less has said it out loud to his wife or just accepts it as one alternative among many.
-John
Why do you think you’ve been successful in the program?
“I was willing to become vulnerable and to take the risk to change. I went into the course with the attitude that I would change and hope that it would positively affect my wife. Most of all, an amazing teacher! Belah is wise beyond her years!”
“I have read a lot of books and listened to a lot of podcasts but none measure up to what Belah teaches!
“I have a wife who is expressing her love for me!
She LOVES what Belah is teaching me and the man that I am becoming.”
-Sam
So excited to see you on the inside! Let’s get started for marriage transformation!!
Blessings,
Belah