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Live, accountability-based training for deep emotional, spiritual, and physical intimacy.

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When your marriage is peaceful, playful and fully connected in all levels of intimacy, you can do God’s will even better. We are here to help you get there.

Discover the Intimacy FrameworkTM that — based on the Word of God — can give you insights to change your part and witness God transform the rest.

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June 23, 2026

540-Is It Manipulation or Is It Kindness?

Is It Manipulation or Is It Kindness? Whether you

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June 16, 2026

539-Not a Bad Marriage, But the Future Looked Disconnected: David’s Transformation Journey

Not a Bad Marriage, But the Future Looked Disconne

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June 9, 2026

538-Why (Physical or Emotional) Vulnerability is So Scary

Why (Physical or Emotional) Vulnerability is So Sc

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June 5, 2026

537-Be Confident Enough to Change

Be Confident Enough to Change In case you need thi

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May 29, 2026

536-Take Your Next Health Step to Own Your Growth (feat. Justin Roethlingshoefer)

Take Your Next Health Step to Own Your Growth Some

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May 22, 2026

535-When Your Intimacy Isn’t “Normal” — There is Help & Hope

When Your Intimacy Isn’t “Normal&#8221

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May 15, 2026

534-She Was Cold, Took Ownership, & Now Feels Tender Towards Her Man: Hannah’s Story

She Was Cold, Took Ownership, & Now Feels Tend

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May 9, 2026

533-All Your “Godly” Accomplishments Are Nothing?

All Your “Godly” Accomplishments Are N

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Our testimonials

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Tom

Tom thought poor communication and lack of intimacy were just part of marriage—until God used the program to reveal his own bitterness and show him a better way. Now his heart has changed, and so has his marriage.

-https://vimeo.com/796152756/6b441df837?share=copy

Jacques

He once asked, “On my deathbed, would I regret investing in my marriage?” The answer was no. That simple decision led to surprising breakthroughs—after years of heaviness and even his wife’s depression, their relationship has been renewed with joy, intimacy, and a hope they never thought possible.

-https://vimeo.com/958005031/7ddfb7ba31?share=copy

Kevin

After years of ministry burnout, he joined the program at his wife’s encouragement—and it took their good marriage to a great one. By learning to love her the way she receives love, they now share deep connection, joy, and endless conversation on the road of life together.

-https://vimeo.com/928573862/eaa91d9964?share=copy

David

After finishing the program once, he grew frustrated when results didn’t come as quickly as he hoped. But instead of turning to unhealthy outlets, he chose to dive back in. God did a deep work—transforming his heart and, in turn, his marriage. Now, his wife is warm, playful, and affectionate, and he’s grateful he stayed the course.

-https://vimeo.com/875835162/d82ac99322?share=copy

Randy

He used to feel stuck in cycles of loneliness, unsure if his needs—or hers—could ever be met. But through the program, he learned how to make his wife feel truly safe, known, and cherished. She’s responded with openness and love, and together they’ve moved from isolation to unity, with practical tools and a renewed joy in their marriage.

-https://vimeo.com/878442028/bd9a5d4ecb?share=copy

Hunter

When his wife asked for a divorce, he thought his marriage was over. But through Delight Your Marriage—and the support of other men—he found hope and the tools to change. Within 6 months, she changed her mind and called off the divorce. Now he feels like a brand-new husband with a restored marriage and family.

-https://vimeo.com/886745702/9e47586b6b?share=copy

Chris A.

For years he felt stuck, not knowing how to change or what steps to take. In the program, God gave him the keys to lasting transformation—renewing his heart, restoring his marriage, and opening his eyes to a hopeful future.

-https://vimeo.com/876438810/ffe01086c4?share=copy

Karl H

After the trauma of losing his first wife, Carl remarried—but unresolved pain, control, and unprocessed anger left his second marriage on the brink. The program helped him shift from self-focus to servant-leadership, and his wife responded with joy, healing, and heartfelt connection. Carl calls it a complete reset.

-https://vimeo.com/1010821525/1a36e368f0?ts=0&share=copy

Brett

After infidelity, health challenges, and spiritual distance, Brett knew he couldn’t just “fix” his marriage—he needed to grow. The program helped him draw near to God, reconnect with his wife, and become a more patient, prayerful leader in his home. Today, he leads with joy, vulnerability, and a deep sense of purpose.

-https://vimeo.com/962249259/e60f99bb35?ts=0&share=copy

Jay

Jay felt completely alone—trapped in a sexless marriage, numbing with porn, and sinking into depression and rage. But through the program and his men’s group, he found forgiveness, freedom from addiction, and connection with God. Now, there’s peace, purpose, and hope where despair used to live.

-https://vimeo.com/975581875/a9ee307661?share=copy

Bill H.

After years of living in a near sexless marriage, he never imagined things could change. But now, in their 60s, he and his wife feel like teenagers in love again—full of playfulness, affection, and deep intimacy they once thought was gone forever.

-https://vimeo.com/849724665/a87b503667?share=copy

Roy

For years, intimacy felt out of reach—old purity culture messages and mismatched desire left them distant. The program gave him tools to love differently, creating safety and trust. Now, his wife initiates, they laugh together, and their marriage feels brand new.

-https://vimeo.com/867794038/99b923b88a?share=copy

Kevin

Kevin, a software engineer married 28 years, felt stuck in a polite but distant marriage. Skeptical at first, he discovered the program’s biblical foundation and practical tools were exactly what he needed. Now he and his wife share closeness, new habits, and renewed joy.

-https://vimeo.com/861089696/24439bd5a0?share=copy

Scott

After years of trying to “fix” intimacy and carrying the weight of eye surgeries, he realized the real change had to start in his own heart. Through the program, he shifted from frustrated fixer to gentle leader—seeing his marriage soften and even his daughters draw closer as connection returned home.

-https://vimeo.com/875282416/0debdf919b?share=copy

Dan

After 25 years of marriage, he felt like a roommate instead of a best friend to his wife. Through the program, God gave him a new heart, softening his spirit and bringing freedom, playfulness, and deeper connection into his marriage and family.

-https://vimeo.com/852451033/5cce5b03ae?share=copy

David

After 17 years of marriage, this pastor longed for deeper intimacy and connection with his wife. Through the program, he experienced personal transformation that softened her heart and restored their bond. Today, their marriage is peaceful, joyful, and renewed.

-https://vimeo.com/835113321/f5073e5b90?share=copy

Brett

After infidelity nearly derailed his marriage, Brett realized real change began with him. The program gave him tools to lead with patience, humility, and love—restoring intimacy, trust, and joy in his home.

-https://vimeo.com/815524056/b5075ee7bd?share=copy

Chad

Chad realized he wasn’t leading his marriage the way God designed. Through the program, he reclaimed his role as a husband—bringing protection, peace, and freedom to his wife, and transformation to their home.

-https://vimeo.com/822539673/761a9083a4?share=copy

Tom

Tom was stuck in bitterness, resentment, and constant miscommunication with his wife. He longed for a godly marriage but didn’t know how to get there. Through the program, he discovered practical tools and a heart change—transforming his marriage, and even improving his relationships with his kids, siblings, and coworkers.

-https://vimeo.com/796152756/6b441df837?share=copy

Brian

Brian had tried books, podcasts, and self-help efforts before, but nothing lasted. His wife had little reason to believe real change was possible. But through the program, he found a Christ-centered framework that stuck—transforming selfish patterns into genuine love.

-https://vimeo.com/841352750/5a19702d5f?share=copy

Bart

Bart thought he had a “good marriage,” but blind spots left his wife disconnected. Through the program, he discovered how to love her wholeheartedly—leading to joy, laughter, and deeper connection. Now, their marriage isn’t just surviving, it’s thriving—and he says the investment has paid dividends for their whole family.

-https://vimeo.com/964893147/094fc33216?share=copy

John

John and his wife built their life and ministry together, but over time he grew isolated, self-focused, and pushed boundaries that hurt their intimacy. Through the program, he discovered tools he never knew he needed—learning how to love his wife in a way that makes her feel truly safe, cherished, and cared for.

-https://vimeo.com/822539410/fa42f92f48?share=copy

Taylor

Taylor had a great friendship with his wife, but talking about intimacy was painful and often ended badly. Through the program, he found the tools to communicate with love, change how he did life, and even saw surprising byproducts—like freedom from lifelong struggles and greater health and wellbeing.

-https://vimeo.com/857244088/60844bb879?share=copy

Wayne

Wayne’s marriage was on the verge of collapse after he cheated and struggled with lifelong sex addiction. But through the program, he finally understood the pain he had caused—and what real connection looks like. Now, he and his wife are rebuilding trust, talking openly, and discovering a new kind of intimacy rooted in safety and love.

-https://vimeo.com/869904166/60bd9ee825?share=copy

Donny

Donny was in a dark place—battling depression, alcoholism, and spiritual emptiness. But as God began to heal his heart, he discovered the program that would deepen the transformation. Now, after 17 years of marriage, he’s walking in joy, purpose, and practical leadership, grateful for the change in himself.

-https://vimeo.com/867412761/c08b109e95?share=copy

Bill (MR Grad promo)

After nearly two decades of living like roommates, Bill saw growth in his first 3 months of MR—but in MR Grad Groups his marriage truly transformed. Now, with his wife joining the women’s program because of his changes, they’re enjoying a closeness and joy he never thought possible.

-https://vimeo.com/670720201/df6a5e2db2

Alex

Alex didn’t even recognize the cracks in his marriage—until distance, disconnection, and the pressures of wartime in his home country brought the truth to light. Through the program, he opened up emotionally, learned how to avoid unnecessary conflict, and watched his wife begin to feel safe again.

-https://vimeo.com/835114003/d00a3c9877?share=copy

Steve

Steve returned from military deployments emotionally unavailable and unsure how to love his wife well. Resentment grew—and so did the distance between them. But through the program, Steve let go of pride and his wife saw the change—and now their whole family feels it.

-https://vimeo.com/832104630/86a0bd9f36?share=copy

Adam

Adam and his wife had been together over 20 years, but life transitions left them feeling like roommates. He longed for more—but didn’t know how to bridge the gap. Through the program, he found the tools to shift his mindset, rebuild connection, and bring joy back into their home.

-https://vimeo.com/822539972/504bc95208?share=copy

Adam – pastor

Adam and his wife had been together over 20 years, but life transitions left them feeling like roommates. He longed for more—but didn’t know how to bridge the gap. Through the program, he found the tools to shift his mindset, rebuild connection, and bring joy back into their home.

-https://vimeo.com/822539972/504bc95208?share=copy

Chad

Chad spent years letting his wife lead and control—but it only left them both frustrated and distant. Through the program, he reclaimed his role as a spiritual leader and the transformation was undeniable. His wife no longer felt the need to control. Now, they’re stronger, more connected, and at peace.

-https://vimeo.com/822539673/761a9083a4?share=copy

Roger

Roger and his wife were on the brink of separating after living parallel lives and years of disconnected intimacy. But through the program, his perspective shifted, their communication opened, and now they’re playful, prayerful, and feel like newlyweds again.

-https://vimeo.com/641886598

Steve (#2)

Steve longed for a marriage full of joy but instead felt stuck in disappointment and distance. When he discovered a Christ-centered system with real accountability, everything shifted. Now their home is filled with laughter, closeness, and lasting hope.

-https://vimeo.com/692513605/890c06ffdf

Barry

After nearly three decades together, Barry and his wife were “good but not great.” The program gave Barry the tools to change himself, which transformed their marriage into one full of joy, laughter, and renewed intimacy.

-https://vimeo.com/694631720/37e18213a5

Ken

After years of busyness, seven kids, and 10 months of no intimacy, Ken sank into depression and hopelessness—ready to give up on life itself. But through the program, God transformed his heart, and now his wife (who still doesn’t know he joined) is initiating intimacy & their connection is deeper than ever.

-https://vimeo.com/689010168

Matt L

As a pastor, Matt struggled with routine, disconnected intimacy and felt stuck without clear resources to turn to. Through MR, he found hope, deepened his walk with Jesus, and experienced a heart-level change that brought playfulness, joy, and renewed love into his 15-year marriage—“an answer to prayer.”

-https://vimeo.com/690481907

Bennie

Bennie, a pastor from South Africa, realized his biggest fights stemmed from misunderstanding intimacy and blaming his wife. Through MR, God softened his heart, gave him tools to love her well, and they fell in love again—transforming their marriage and the atmosphere of their home.

-https://vimeo.com/694087373/ceb0c80011

James

James saw his marriage slowly drifting the wrong way, but through MR he learned the tools to restore connection. Now, he and his wife share open conversations, renewed intimacy, and a thriving marriage that keeps getting better every day.

-https://vimeo.com/669112626

Matt S

After 29 years of marriage and trying countless books, seminars, and podcasts, Matt says Masculinity Reclaimed has been the most impactful resource he’s ever experienced. By learning how to truly love his wife in the ways she receives love, he’s seen their already good marriage grow into something even richer and stronger.

-https://vimeo.com/694711982/66ab6c5705

Jeff

Jeff had a solid 22-year marriage, but intimacy felt stagnant and hard to discuss. Through MR, he learned to love his wife selflessly and found tools that brought fresh passion, gratitude, and joy into their relationship.

-https://vimeo.com/669173346

Russ – Cost

Russ, married 35 years, admits he’s always been frugal—but says nothing compares to the value of a peaceful, loving marriage. After years of counseling that didn’t bring real change, he calls the program “worth every penny” because it actually works.

-https://vimeo.com/631436896

Russ – MR2

Russ, married 36 years, joined MRG because he never wanted to drift back after the transformation he experienced in MR. He says the accountability, encouragement, and brotherhood keep his marriage thriving—and he’s now closer to his wife than ever before.

-https://vimeo.com/630948674/af2981f3f2

JP

After 28 years of marriage, JP realized his tendency to shut down and withdraw was wounding his wife and blocking intimacy. By surrendering to God and embracing the tools he wished he’d had earlier, he’s experiencing new joy, peace, and closeness at home.

-https://vimeo.com/627377912

Ben

Ben and his wife of 26 years had drifted into “roommate mode,” but as his heart softened and intimacy returned, their whole marriage was renewed. His changes were so evident that his wife joined the women’s program too—and now they’re deeply in love again.

-https://vimeo.com/627686371

Stan

Stan and his wife spent years stuck in defensiveness, bickering, and distance—both emotionally and physically. By stepping into the program on his own, he learned how to love her like Christ, let go of expectations, and rebuild connection—now they’re enjoying intimacy and closeness on every level.

-https://vimeo.com/627038641

Peter

Peter and his wife spent years with intimacy that looked exciting on the surface but felt empty in their hearts. After he quietly took the program, he learned how to love her with gratitude, safety, and spiritual focus—now their emotional closeness and intimacy are deeper and more life-giving than ever.

-https://vimeo.com/626742413

Nic

Nic, a missionary and father of three toddlers, felt stuck in a cycle of disconnected intimacy, stress, and resentment. After taking the program quietly on his own, everything shifted—his wife now desires him, their intimacy is passionate and generous, and their marriage feels like a complete 180.

-https://vimeo.com/623601409

Danny

Danny and his wife of 25 years had grown into “roommates,” weighed down by past wounds, porn struggles, and years of duty sex. After each joined their own Delight Your Marriage programs, their trust was rebuilt and intimacy became passionate—leaving his wife glowing with joy as they now walk in God’s design together.

-https://vimeo.com/621495390

Nick

Nick and his wife had resigned themselves to a miserable marriage after 12 years of anger, resentment, and disconnection. But when he chose to lead differently, everything shifted—now they feel like a true team, intimacy is thriving, and they’re happier together than ever before.

-https://vimeo.com/616978757

Joshua T

Joshua had a good marriage of 13 years but struggled with pornography, which fueled anger, unmet expectations, and spiritual distance. By learning God’s design for marriage, listening with care, and fostering emotional freedom, he and his wife now enjoy intimacy rooted in joy and feel like honeymooners again!

-https://vimeo.com/619895483/5d65266bf2?ts=0&share=copy

Max

Max and his wife were overwhelmed by having four kids less than 2 years, which left their marriage joyless and disconnected. After joining the program, he discovered how to pursue her differently and now she initiates with passion and their home is filled with connection and hope.

-https://vimeo.com/618780317

Timothy

Timothy’s two-year marriage had slipped into “roommate mode,” with his wife recoiling even from hugs. By investing in change himself, he saw their marriage transform. Now, she initiates affection and intimacy, they laugh and play together, and their relationship is full of joy and connection.

-https://vimeo.com/618855004

Nathan T

Nathan, a pastor married five years, shared that while his marriage was strong, he and his wife felt disconnected—especially around intimacy and affection. Through MR, he gained tools and understanding that opened her heart, leading to more joy and a newfound closeness.

-https://vimeo.com/631828633

Steve (fireman)

Steve’s marriage had slipped into “roommate mode,” with frequent tension and intimacy feeling like obligation. By shifting his mindset and learning to truly listen, he’s now experiencing deeper connection, playful intimacy, and renewed joy with his wife.

-https://vimeo.com/619899042?share=copy#t=0

Tom

Tom had a good marriage but he longed for more “sizzle” and deeper connection. Through the program, he learned to pursue his wife intentionally, make practical changes that showed love, and build lasting habits—leading to a stronger, more joyful marriage that even inspired his wife to join the program herself.

-https://vimeo.com/623600525

Norm

Norm’s 18-year marriage was on the brink after years of arguments, emotional distance, and intimacy dropping to once a month—until his wife even admitted she didn’t like him anymore. Through the program, he changed his own heart, and she soon called him “the new me.

-https://vimeo.com/527481739/f92ce4b731

Jeremiah

Jeremiah had a good marriage, but years of “vanilla” intimacy left him longing for more. In MR, he discovered the power of emotional vulnerability and deeper communication, which opened his wife’s heart. Now, their physical intimacy is playful, mutual, and more fulfilling than he ever imagined.

-https://vimeo.com/527521093/81dc95ed41

Phil

Phil and his wife had a loving 36-year marriage but lacked true intimacy, leaving him feeling hopeless and controlling without realizing it. Through DYM, he learned to truly understand her heart, express love, and embrace playfulness—making their marriage more passionate than ever.

-https://vimeo.com/466299903/5150843d3e

Mo

Mo was ready for divorce after years of stress and disconnection, but the program helped him heal, forgive, and reconnect with God. Now he and his wife are rebuilding intimacy and even buying a home together with hope for the future.

-https://vimeo.com/467853130

Captain

For nearly 14 years, he and his wife lived disconnected—intimacy felt like duty, he turned to porn and overwork for escape, and he felt disrespected and unseen at home. Now, his wife initiates with joy, they connect emotionally and physically several times a week, and he feels fulfilled, respected, and deeply grateful for the transformation in his marriage.

-https://vimeo.com/465004350/e7f58544ab

Kyle

Intimacy in Kyle’s marriage had long felt like duty sex—leaving him empty and disconnected from his playful, lighthearted self. Now, everything has shifted: his wife now desires and initiates, their intimacy is joyful and connected, and even their family life has been transformed by the change in him.

-https://vimeo.com/461946145/74b300fd49

Donna & Todd

Married 35 years and now empty nesters, Donna and Todd had a strong relationship but struggled with unequal libido, pain during intimacy, and feeling stuck in a catch-22 of not initiating. Through the program, Todd gained a deeper understanding of women & together they experienced surprising renewal in intimacy and joy.

-https://vimeo.com/575082514/59a1b71dce

Russ & Kim

After 35 years of marriage marked by counseling, emotional baggage, and frequent painful fights, they were losing hope and even dreaded celebrating their anniversary. Through the program, they’ve experienced the best weeks of their marriage in decades, leaving behind old patterns and embracing a new normal of peace and connection.

-https://vimeo.com/623495927

Anne & Glenn

Anne felt invisible. Glenn was caught in patterns of porn and disconnection. For decades, they drifted apart—but God wasn’t done. Through the program, emotional safety returned, communication opened up, and the bedroom became a place of joy again.

-https://vimeo.com/527515815/6bea51f2c3

Anne (MR cost)

Anne says counseling never reached the heart, but through this program her husband connected with God’s design and truly transformed. Now, instead of shrinking in her marriage, she feels cherished, protected, and able to admire the man she always hoped he would be.

-https://vimeo.com/649050189/9d1686cba6

Adam P.

After 30 years of marriage, he thought empty nesting would be easy—but instead, it exposed years of emotional drift. He felt distant, exhausted, and spiritually dry. Through the program, he humbled himself, reconnected with God, and started leading once more. Now, their marriage is alive again!

-https://vimeo.com/969271559/7051581e26?share=copy

Stephen

After 28 years of emotional and physical abandonment, he felt hopeless—until a desperate search for answers led him to DYM. As he did the work and allowed God to change his heart, his wife said, “I see Jesus in you again.” Now, she greets him with joy, desire, and admiration, and their marriage is no longer just surviving—it’s thriving.

-https://vimeo.com/1057678665/415ea9c362?ts=0&share=copyrs

Joel

Years of task-oriented living had drained their spark, but learning to truly listen and pray for his wife brought unexpected healing. Now, their connection runs deeper—and joy has returned to their home. So much so, even their teen daughter noticed the transformation in their home.

-https://vimeo.com/999284377/5d3e582538?share=copy

Kevin B

He went into the program with a broken heart and a strained marriage. But when he stopped trying to change his wife and focused on surrendering to Christ, everything began to shift. Slowly, his wife and daughters saw the difference. Now, his home is more peaceful, his family feels safe, and has hope again.

-https://vimeo.com/1015925118/9f9d282efa?ts=0&share=copy

Montage + Mick

For 16 years, they looked like the perfect couple—good communication, regular intimacy—but beneath the surface, there was no emotional, spiritual, or true physical connection. Through the program, everything changed. Now, there is peace, safety, and intimacy that flows from real emotional and spiritual unity.

-https://vimeo.com/877707540?share=copy

Montage + Ken

After years of rejection and 10 months of no intimacy, he felt hopeless—even ready to give up on life. But through the program, his heart changed, intimacy became deeply connected, and now he’s excited to know his wife again.

-https://vimeo.com/878251260/536d77b6d3?share=copy

Montage + Robert

After 30 years of marriage, his wife shared she felt their marriage was a mistake—and he felt helpless to change it. Through the program, he discovered exactly what he’d been missing and how to care for his wife well. Now, instead of doubt and distance, their marriage is everything he always longed for.

-https://vimeo.com/878263944/214900732d?share=copy

Chris S.

After years of addiction to gambling, pornography, and female attention, he feared his marriage was beyond repair. But through the program, he embraced servant-leadership, daily prayer, and honest vulnerability. Today, his wife has forgiven him, and their relationship is thriving like never before.

-https://vimeo.com/1077158983/133a7c2386?ts=0&share=copy

Melanie

Melanie wasn’t angry—just empty. After 32 years of drifting, she quietly enrolled in the program, unsure if anything could bring her heart back. But God met her there, softened her fears, and gave her the tools to rebuild. Today, her marriage is full of joy, admiration, and legacy—felt by her family and church alike.

-https://vimeo.com/1121979750/b37646ac30?share=copy

Lindsay

Lindsay didn’t think she had time to invest in herself—let alone undo years of purity culture messaging. But the program met her right in the middle of mom life, and now she carries what she’s learned into every part of who she is.

-https://vimeo.com/858635613/d11a1edaa1?share=copy

Mick

After 16 years of marriage and a pattern of duty sex with no real connection, Mick longed for more but didn’t know how to get there. Through the program, he saw a transformation in their hearts and their home. Now, arguments are gone, emotional intimacy is flourishing, and their physical relationship is more passionate than ever.

-https://vimeo.com/820729672/122914e53a?share=copy

Krista

Krista’s patterns of arguing and compartmentalizing had shaped her family life without her realizing. Through the program, she found new rhythms of grace—and a renewed closeness with her husband.

-https://vimeo.com/1013002497/9dcbdbd7ca?ts=0&share=copy

Ed

Ed’s marriage started strong—but behind the scenes, porn had driven a painful wedge. After his wife gave him a clear ultimatum, he joined the program. Now, their intimacy has been renewed, communication has deepened, and for the first time in years, they’re truly happy.

-https://vimeo.com/820727693/828eaf0566?share=copy

Rebekah

Rebekah’s husband went through the men’s program first—and the changes in him softened her heart. She entered the program still disconnected from physical intimacy, but as her safety grew, so did her trust, her joy, and her ability to receive and enjoy her husband’s love.

-https://vimeo.com/1004283633/452e232473?share=copy

Pastor Darryl

After 40 years of marriage and 23 years pastoring, Darryl knew something had to change—the last 20 years had grown cold. He joined the program quietly, hoping for transformation, and God delivered it—through him. His wife doesn’t know he joined, but she sees the difference.

-https://vimeo.com/820727130/8b0ca7d988?share=copy

Heidi

After her husband’s unfaithfulness, Heidi carried resentment—but most of all, deep distrust. Through the program, her mindset shifted—and so did his. Now the tension is gone, replaced with mutual respect, trust, and even playfulness.

-https://vimeo.com/929541183/8155833636?share=copy

Kabir

Stress at work magnified the buried issues in Kabir’s marriage, and before long he found himself emotionally distant and deeply frustrated. In the program, he gained the clarity and tools to truly connect with his wife—and now he’s building the kind of marriage he once thought was out of reach.

-https://vimeo.com/750031343/b2bf4c4969?share=copy

Sarah

Sarah, a homeschooling mom of 5, came in craving biblical, husband-honoring guidance—and found exactly that. Despite past anxiety in group settings, she discovered a safe, life-giving space to grow in confidence and embrace God’s design for marriage.

-https://vimeo.com/932136830/40bf7f8764?share=copy

Robert

Robert’s wife had repeatedly said their marriage was a mistake—but when she handed him the podcast, everything began to change. Through the program, he learned how to make her feel safe, cherished, and known—and now they’re experiencing the wholehearted intimacy and connection he’d only hoped for before.

-https://vimeo.com/820698333/86f82c5408?share=copy

Bethany

Dancing on the edge of separation and reeling from infidelity, Bethany came in with no hope. But through her Clarity Call, she rediscovered a forgotten hope: Jesus. Now her marriage is being restored, and she and her husband are walking in healing only God could bring.

-https://vimeo.com/930892652/52927e1110?share=copy

Kate

Kate’s marriage was okay, but when her husband went through the program and came out changed, she felt prompted to do the same. What she found was more than she expected—growth, self-awareness, and a much stronger connection with her husband.

-https://vimeo.com/873869561/109233d2af?share=copy

Mitchell

Mitchell was in a broken place—his marriage was unraveling, and counseling hadn’t worked. But through the program, he found a biblical path to healing, a brotherhood that truly gets it, and the joy of learning to love his wife like never before.

-https://vimeo.com/820698196/23723633e0?share=copy

Sarah

Past sexual trauma and early sexual experiences left Sarah’s marriage struggling to find safety in intimacy. As she worked through the program, healing took root, and her husband was freed from fear—and now intimacy is something they both enjoy and celebrate.

-https://vimeo.com/906934425/9ce036ddc8?share=copy

Chris

Chris had a solid marriage—but he knew something was missing. As he shifted from seeking change in his wife to seeking God’s work in himself, his home was transformed into a place of deeper love, grace, and connection.

-https://vimeo.com/820697857/1159b3d393?share=copy

Jameson

With two young kids and a full life, Jameson could have settled for “good enough.” But when he joined the program, he found a community of growth and godly challenge—and now, he and his wife are closer than ever.

-https://vimeo.com/820697712/fcb226f66b?share=copy

Amber

After facing the painful truth of an affair, Amber was determined to fight for change. Through the program and loving accountability, she learned how to love her husband well, rebuild trust, and experience real emotional and physical connection.

-https://vimeo.com/879981148/9a894490f3?share=copy

Josh

Josh entered marriage with hope—but early physical pain and emotional distance made intimacy a challenge. Through the program, he invited God into every part of his relationship and saw not just his marriage shift, but his wife open up in beautiful, unexpected ways.

-https://vimeo.com/747631427/67ec1298e5

Carol

Carol started this journey without her husband’s support, but her Clarity Call gave her the hope she needed. Now, through God’s grace and the tools she’s learned, she’s found healing, intimacy, and a level of fulfillment she never thought possible.

-https://vimeo.com/875270961/0d6ac1c8d9?share=copy

Reed

Haunted by past wounds and unmet expectations, Reed stepped into the program ready for change. Through God’s grace and accountability, he experienced deep healing—and now, his wife is opening up again, with more trust, connection, and even playfulness.

-https://vimeo.com/820697337/dd00f34b5d?share=copy

Kristen

Kristen wrestled with whether she was really hearing from God—but realized that waiting for a big sign was holding her back. Now she encourages others to pray, trust their peace, and take that step of faith toward healing.

-https://vimeo.com/875267540/b5e1294959?share=copy

Bill

After years of emotional disconnection, counseling that didn’t work, and divorce looming, Bill took a leap—not just to fix his marriage, but to rediscover his walk with God. The result? A calmer spirit, a wife who feels safe again, and a home full of peace and possibility.

-https://vimeo.com/725668955/513d310988

Anne (to women-MR)

Anne doubted anything could save her marriage—it felt too far gone. But after over a year of lasting change through the program, she’s found emotional connection, healing, and the freedom to be the woman God created her to be.

-https://vimeo.com/877862984/6d51c990bf?share=copy

Bob

Bob was honest about his struggle with porn from the beginning—but openness wasn’t the same as transformation. When he joined the program, he not only broke harmful patterns but learned how to love with gentleness and strength. Today, his wife says she feels truly safe and accepted for the first time—and she’s so glad he stepped into this journey.

-https://vimeo.com/724667701/5b31e39c4e

Kim

Empty-nesters Kim and her husband had tried everything—therapy, coaching, different modalities—but nothing brought the real change they longed for. Now, for the first time, they’re not just growing older—they’re truly enjoying each other again.

-https://vimeo.com/834184581/1ec84cc84a?share=copy

Jenny

Jenny felt like a ‘Martha’—stuck in routine and missing deeper connection. Now she’s grown emotionally, spiritually, and even playfully, becoming a ‘Mary’ and seeing real change in her husband and home.

-https://vimeo.com/832101684/99e057d569?share=copy

Matt A

Matt wanted to grow closer to God and love his wife more like Christ loved the church. Through the program, he began to see her open up in ways she never had before, leading to a new sense of connection, even though she never joined the program.

-https://vimeo.com/705887031/118dc783be

Charles

After years of hiding infidelity and feeling hopeless, Charles chose to change—on his own. Through the program, he found a blueprint for reconnection, and even without his wife in the program, their marriage is healing in ways he never imagined possible.

-https://vimeo.com/468957005/36dad9ee7e

Jen

Jen wanted more than “good enough”—she wanted real connection. Through practical tools, scripture, and her amazing accountability group, she uncovered peace, joy, and a renewed bond with her husband.

-https://vimeo.com/981470342/fe67c7b814?ts=0&share=copy

Darcy (2nd)

Darcy came in carrying years of personal pain and struggle, unsure what healing even looked like—but as she leaned into God and did the work, everything began to change. Now she gets to share that same hope with others every day.

-https://vimeo.com/704140992/abf7507711

Darcy (1st)

Darcy thought sex was just important to men—until the program showed her the beauty of wholehearted intimacy. It brought her and her husband a level of emotional and spiritual connection she didn’t know was possible.

-https://vimeo.com/809994578/2849925f05?share=copy

Meredith

Meredith had a good marriage, but her low desire and the season of life were weighing heavily on their intimacy. Through the women’s program and her group, she found space to open up, grow, and begin healing emotionally and physically.

-https://vimeo.com/708822026/50b05ee1fa

Emily

Emily didn’t feel truly seen or loved in her marriage and had no idea how disconnected they were. Through the program, she realized how much joy was missing—and how much she could do to help bring it back.

-https://vimeo.com/703201928/5f97478dc3

Ebony

With honesty, laughter, and a heart transformed, Ebony now carries a burden—not just for her own marriage, but for others. She believes women of color need this message, and she’s urging them: “If I can trust it—and see change—you can too.”

-https://vimeo.com/658779927/0a26cc62ad

Diana

Diana had been carrying tension in her marriage, driven by perfectionism and the pressure to always get things right. But in the program, she found a group of women cheering each other on—and in the process, her home became a place of calm, joy, and connection.

-https://vimeo.com/487421358/c9a4b3bc7b?ts=0&share=copy

Jaqui

Jaqui didn’t come in with a failing marriage, but she knew there was room to grow—especially with her husband’s hidden struggles. Her accountability group and the program’s depth gave her clarity, support, and courage to keep investing in their relationship.

-https://vimeo.com/822539438/dd4893f807?share=copy

Rose

Rose and her husband had a solid marriage, but the grief of multiple miscarriages left them feeling distant. Through the program, she found healing and tools that brought renewed closeness and joy.

-https://vimeo.com/820730001/69482411ee?share=copy

Lisa

Between family stress, a hard season in her marriage, past sexual abuse, and the effects of purity culture, Lisa carried a lot into the program. But she found space to grow, heal, and start to believe again in what’s possible.

-https://vimeo.com/820729612/880997c00d?share=copy

Tanya

For 30 years, Tanya felt emotionally abandoned and physically obligated in her marriage. But when her husband went through the program first, his change opened the door to her own healing. Now, she’s looking forward to the future, with a marriage full of peace, affection, and hope.

-https://vimeo.com/962646271/8c5283b8a2?share=copy

Andrea

Andrea grew up feeling ashamed about her sexuality, hoping marriage would make things better—but it didn’t. Through the Delight Your Marriage program, she’s begun to find healing and see God’s design for sex as something good.

-https://vimeo.com/820727782/412208113c?share=copy

Trinity

Trinity isn’t married yet, but she’s been experiencing panic attacks at the thought of sex. She joined the program hoping to find peace and freedom from the anxiety she feels around intimacy in marriage.

-https://vimeo.com/820728011/7de1f6b100?share=copy

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We are committed to the Bible in all we do and teach. The only reason our work works, is because it’s based on the Word of God and we seek to honor Jesus in it all.

We’d love to help you thrive in every area of your marriage — physical, emotional and spiritual intimacy.

When your relationship is loving and thriving, we believe you both become so much more aligned with God’s will. It increases your ability to love Him and others!

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