{"id":11917,"date":"2024-04-26T18:31:07","date_gmt":"2024-04-26T18:31:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/delightyourmarriage.com\/?p=11917"},"modified":"2024-04-26T18:31:07","modified_gmt":"2024-04-26T18:31:07","slug":"428-30-years-disconnected-in-marriage-now-deeply-connected-adams-transformation-story","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/delightyourmarriage.com\/428-30-years-disconnected-in-marriage-now-deeply-connected-adams-transformation-story\/","title":{"rendered":"428- 30 Years Disconnected in Marriage, Now Deeply Connected: Adam&#8217;s Transformation Story"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"powerpress_player\" id=\"powerpress_player_4851\"><!--[if lt IE 9]><script>document.createElement('audio');<\/script><![endif]-->\n<audio class=\"wp-audio-shortcode\" id=\"audio-11917-1\" preload=\"none\" style=\"width: 100%;\" controls=\"controls\"><source type=\"audio\/mpeg\" src=\"https:\/\/traffic.libsyn.com\/secure\/delightyourmarriage\/Podcast_Adams_Transformation_Story_2.mp3?_=1\" \/><a href=\"https:\/\/traffic.libsyn.com\/secure\/delightyourmarriage\/Podcast_Adams_Transformation_Story_2.mp3\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\">https:\/\/traffic.libsyn.com\/secure\/delightyourmarriage\/Podcast_Adams_Transformation_Story_2.mp3<\/a><\/audio><\/div><p class=\"powerpress_links powerpress_links_mp3\" style=\"margin-bottom: 1px !important;\">Podcast: <a href=\"https:\/\/traffic.libsyn.com\/secure\/delightyourmarriage\/Podcast_Adams_Transformation_Story_2.mp3\" class=\"powerpress_link_pinw\" target=\"_blank\" title=\"Play in new window\" onclick=\"return powerpress_pinw(&#039;https:\/\/delightyourmarriage.com\/?powerpress_pinw=11917-podcast&#039;);\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\">Play in new window<\/a> | <a href=\"https:\/\/traffic.libsyn.com\/secure\/delightyourmarriage\/Podcast_Adams_Transformation_Story_2.mp3\" class=\"powerpress_link_d\" title=\"Download\" rel=\"nofollow noopener\" download=\"Podcast_Adams_Transformation_Story_2.mp3\" target=\"_blank\">Download<\/a><\/p><p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We all know that marriage is a blessing from God. And when a marriage spans decades &#8211; ten, twenty, thirty years- we often stand in awe and amazement at that accomplishment.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">However, there are times when those thirty years privately have been disconnected and painful and becoming empty nesters resulted in feeling like even less than roommates. But, what if they found a program that changed it all and brought a deeper peace, connection, and unity to their marriage than they\u2019ve had in three decades?<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That is Adam\u2019s Transformation Story. From being disconnected and treating her almost as he did one of his \u201cemployees\u201d to learning what it truly means to be \u201csafe\u201d for his wife. <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">So connected in fact that they are planning a getaway for their 30th anniversary! When just a few short months ago she felt there was nothing to celebrate!<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We are thrilled to share this transformation story with you because it\u2019s a miracle that we give God all glory and honor for what He did in their family.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">If any part of it resonates\u2013the disconnect, the want for a change in heart, the desire for results like this one (planning a trip, deeper intimacy, deeper connection)\u2013we encourage you to make a Clarity Call at <\/span><em><a href=\"http:\/\/www.delightyourmarriage.com\/cc\">www.delightyourmarriage.com\/cc<\/a><\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">We hope this story encourages you, reminds you that God is for you, and that it is truly, truly, never too late to turn and create a new beginning in your marriage.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Love,<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Belah\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">PS &#8211; If you have been on the fence about deciding to go through a program we invite you to join in now, because in 2 weeks the pricing model and structure will change as we\u2019re having to cap enrollment.\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I hope you can jump in now as we\u2019ll be raising the price in two weeks.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Check out <\/span><em><a href=\"http:\/\/delightyourmarriage.com\/cc\">delightyourmarriage.com\/cc<\/a><\/em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to learn more!<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">PPS &#8211; Here is a quote from a recent graduate:<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Before MR: \u201c<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Lack of connection, lack of intimacy on each Spiritual, Emotional or Physical. I knew that our physical intimacy was lacking, My wife and I were friendly &#8216;roommates&#8217;, Physical intimacy was infrequent (3-5x a year) and not passionate. I knew I wanted and needed more, but I wasn&#8217;t able to identify the lacking Spiritual and Emotional intimacy. I described myself as Helpless but not Hopeless because I had hope but didn&#8217;t know exactly what was missing and what to do about it\u2026.\u201d<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">After MR: <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u201c(The) <\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">DYM MR program has drawn me closer to God, my wife, and my daughters. I have seen wonderful growth in my closeness with my wife and we&#8217;ve spent more time truly together in the last couple months than in prior years. We&#8217;ve gone from polite roommates where I had been jealous of my wife&#8217;s craving of Diet Coke more than she seemed to need or crave me in her life to teenagers who do fun silly things to express our love for one another&#8230; My spiritual connections with God and my wife have improved 100 fold!&#8230; My wife and I are on an adventure to read the bible within the next year. We&#8217;re also cooking together 3 nights per week\u2026\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><br \/>\nDoes your marriage currently feel like living with a roommate? We want to help bring the spark back! Visit <\/span><em><a href=\"http:\/\/delightyourmarriage.com\/cc\">delightyourmarriage.com\/cc<\/a><\/em><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> to schedule a free Clarity Call with us. We would love to talk to you!<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>We all know that marriage is a blessing from God. And when a marriage spans decades &#8211; ten, twenty, thirty years- we often stand in awe and amazement at that accomplishment. &nbsp; However, there are times when those thirty years privately have been disconnected and painful and becoming empty nesters resulted in feeling like even less than roommates. 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