DYM Ep92: Create Your Life Focus Together with Kimberly Holmes

12 Apr

Create Your Life Focus TogetherPII: When we don’t have a shared vision, everything feels important. It feels vital to win the argument, to get our point across, and to nitpick at the problems in our spouse. But, once we are intentional about envisioning a shared legacy we want to leave, everything comes into proper focus. Kimberly shares how creating goals as a couple has revolutionized the way she and her husband interact with each other. It was one of the biggest turning points in my marriage and continues to ground us as a couple. This episode is not to be missed!

Check out Part I: Dealing With Anger at delightyourmarriage.com/91

Find out more about Kimberly at marriagehelper.com


You’ll Discover:

  • How to defuse a tense situation and even make it enjoyable.
  • How making goals together puts you on the same page, fighting for the same things.
  • How to make goals as a couple.
  • How you can figure out what God is leading you to do, through reflection and asking yourself specific questions.
  • How jealousy and comparisons can steal our effectiveness, but the secret to combat it.
  • How to create sex goals.


Books & Resources Mentioned:

How Are You Measuring Success


  • How are you measuring your success?
  • If it’s only one life changed, isn’t that worth it?
  • I don’t have to be right in every situation.
  • When I say fight, I really mean disagreeing in a very civil way, respectfully in way that is not going to hurt our marriage.
  • I wish I had learned to go with the flow more.


Thanks for listening! I hope you are encouraged to live in wholehearted intimacy!





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