Delight Your Marriage | Christian Marriage Transformation
You weren't meant to be lonely,
especially in your marriage.
We focus on helping YOU become the man or woman God designed you to be, so your marriage can be healed, strengthened, and renewed.
Dear husband or wife—God sees you. There is hope. Even if only one of you takes the first step, your marriage can move from pain to passion.
We invite you to take the next step toward the joyful, Christ-centered marriage you’ve always hoped might exist, but maybe never experienced.
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Our Coaching programs provide a proven, biblically grounded path to personal transformation. With guidance from expert coaching, daily practical application, and accountability within supportive community, YOU change, and so does your marriage!
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The Delight Your Marriage Podcast, hosted by Belah Rose, began a decade ago and by God's grace, has millions of downloads! It continues to bless people around the globe with weekly biblical guidance to build marriages that God designed!
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We develop books and course materials for individuals and churches to provide training and guidance on marital intimacy, forgiveness, and changing unhealthy dynamics. These resources have helped thousands of marriages heal and thrive.
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Meet Belah Rose
Head coach and founder of Delight Your Marriage
Hi there!
Over the last decade, I have worked with hundreds of clients, watching God transform their marriages in our coaching programs, using the Delight Your Marriage Framework
Most of us didn’t grow up with strong role models for marriage, so how are we supposed to know how to love our spouse well? Often, we simply don’t know how to apply God’s principles in practical, grace-filled ways.
We’d love to help you discover freedom in intimacy, playfulness, peace, and deeply fulfilling connection in your marriage.
I hope to meet you soon.
Belah
Over the last decade, I have worked with hundreds of clients, watching God transform their marriages in our coaching programs, using the Delight Your Marriage Framework
Most of us didn’t grow up with strong role models for marriage, so how are we supposed to know how to love our spouse well? Often, we simply don’t know how to apply God’s principles in practical, grace-filled ways.
We’d love to help you discover freedom in intimacy, playfulness, peace, and deeply fulfilling connection in your marriage.
I hope to meet you soon.
Belah
Thank you thank you!
God is using you so much. I don’t even think you can begin to know the powerhouse and vessel you are for the kingdom! Thank you for your obedience in ministering the way you do.
Your reward in heaven is going to be HUGE sister and just want you to know what an incredible blessing you are to every ear that hears your podcast and listens to your guests!
Excited to see what’s next. Love you sooooo much!
-JULIANA
Life changing
This podcast has changed my view of things in so many ways. I am a husband and I started listening bc I was looking for ways to better my marriage and to live the marriage I have always dreamed of. Belah has a way of explaining things about how men think and act that I couldn’t even explain. She gives credibility to men’s feelings and instincts and actions that give men hope and makes us feel like we are normal and not just some dirty creature.
But, by listening to her various podcasts, I have learned so much more….like how to treat my wife better, how I am supposed to treat her, what she wants, how to effectively make changes in my marriage, how to give, how to take action, how to incorporate faith statements….I could go on and on.
And yet Belah has a humility about her where she clearly knows what she is talking about, but doesn’t act like a know it all. She’s human and she shows that side.
My wife has listened to some at my requests and she told me it really opened her eyes and It all makes total sense but no one ever explained it to her like Belah can.
We have a ways to go, but I have never been more optimistic about my wife and I’s future together.
Thanks you for what you do Belah! You are really doing meaningful work!
-Kevin
I heard Jesus’s character in [Belah & her husband]…novel in a world we’re so used to sarcasm and selfishness
I listened to a three part series about being peaceful and laid back. As I listened to her husband talk I fell to my knees in tears. I have been teaching men for a long time, and have been thirsting for someone to look up to. Yes, it’s Jesus. But I heard Jesus’s character in these two’s hearts. It was beautiful hearing Bella laugh at and affirm him. I loved it when he spoke so highly and with gratitude of her and listened to her sounds in the background.
Their interactions and emotion while speaking is novel in a world where we are so used to sarcasm and selfishness and calloused feelings about our kids and loved ones.
-William
Turned our marriage around!
Your (Belah’s) writings have turned our marriage around. I shared with my wife and after an initial “all you want is sex” attitude, she read and really responded to what you wrote. We went from a virtually sexless marriage to at least twice a week of truly enthusiastic lovemaking.
JACK
You are AMAZING! Thank you!
My husband and I have been so blessed by your content and unique way of teaching wives to love themselves and love their husbands. I think every wife needs to listen to your podcasts and episodes.
I will love to work with you and be part of your beautiful ministry. Young wives and marriages need to listen to you. I’ve try to search for answers as to why our intimacy was so plain and now I have this amazing confidence in my sexuality and essence after listening and applying your advices.
I would love to help you spread the word so that a more younger audience can benefit from your content and therefore more young christian and non-christian marriages be blessed and empowered. God bless you, your family, and your ministry!!!
MEREDITH
Honestly, I have tried everything
that I know how to try and nothing worked. The only thing that has made a difference is listening to Belahs podcasts and getting a little more understanding about my wife and her thought patterns. I’ve listened to numerous podcasts and I don’t think there is anyone who understands intimacy as well as Belah. I have never heard anyone else articulate my thoughts And needs better than Belah, so, I think with the understanding that She has of men and the understanding that she has of women she is probably the only one that can help.
-Hector
Next level — extremely beneficial for our marriage
Your podcast was the very first marriage/relationship podcast we ever listened to, and was absolutely critical in us taking the first steps on our road to improvement. I would never want to take a space from someone who has a much greater need or who has not even begun this journey.
However, we have both learned so much from your resources over the years, that I would hate to miss out on further improvement opportunities as I know there are still plenty of things I can do much better as a husband and father.
You have a way of drilling down to the most critical issues and providing actionable steps to take things to the next level…so I know it would be extremely beneficial for our marriage.
JEREMIAH
[He said] “I am COMPLETELY SATISFIED, I WOULDN’T CHANGE A THING” … I almost cried!!!
if there was anything he would like to change in our marriage, or maybe anything I could be doing better. His answer was “Well honey, if you asked the same question a few months back I would have a lot to say… but right now I am COMPLETELY SATISFIED, I WOULDN’T CHANGE A THING” … I almost cried!!!
Our home is simply the best place to be at, our relationship is amazing and we really look forward to our alone time, if you know what I mean.
I now wake up every morning looking forward to exercising, dancing, and spending time with my family… No depression, so stress and no more anxiety. I praise God for the peace that is clearly felt in our home!
Thank you so much for everything you have taught me thus far and I look forward to reconnecting with you.
JAN
She thanked ME for making [intimacy] so good!
She was more aggressive than I had ever seen in the past and I thanked her for it. She thanked me in return for making sex so good that she now really wanted more of it. She also thanked me for changing our marriage.
Now, I thank you for being an awesome coach! We will be eternally grateful. You are an answer to several years of prayer.
JIM
Unbelievable to hear someone “at last” understanding what men really want…and [Belah] understands it!!!
Like some of the listeners on the podcast said – it is unbelievable to hear someone “at last” understanding what men really want.
It is not just “sex” it is much deeper than that and she understands it!!!
GAVIN
Refreshing truth.
This sounds dramatic but I feel like this podcast is life changing for our marriages. Belah comes along side us in the most encouraging, open and honest way. Belah gently and firmly cheers us on to pursue everything that is good in our marriages.
CAROL
Great advice for wives
The DYM podcast covers a great spectrum of marriage topics, all from a Biblical perspective. Belah really seams to have an understanding of the needs and desires of a husband. She seems to express the things husbands can’t seem to put into words. Wives – give this podcast a try for the sake of your marriage.
ADAM
SAFE
I was looking for a female’s perspective that was safe for my wife (and me). Belah does a very good job of presenting intimacy in a secure way.
HUBERT
Next level — extremely beneficial for our marriage
Your podcast was the very first marriage/relationship podcast we ever listened to, and was absolutely critical in us taking the first steps on our road to improvement. I would never want to take a space from someone who has a much greater need or who has not even begun this journey.
However, we have both learned so much from your resources over the years, that I would hate to miss out on further improvement opportunities as I know there are still plenty of things I can do much better as a husband and father.
You have a way of drilling down to the most critical issues and providing actionable steps to take things to the next level…so I know it would be extremely beneficial for our marriage.
JEREMIAH
[He said] “I am COMPLETELY SATISFIED, I WOULDN’T CHANGE A THING” … I almost cried!!!
if there was anything he would like to change in our marriage, or maybe anything I could be doing better. His answer was “Well honey, if you asked the same question a few months back I would have a lot to say… but right now I am COMPLETELY SATISFIED, I WOULDN’T CHANGE A THING” … I almost cried!!!
Our home is simply the best place to be at, our relationship is amazing and we really look forward to our alone time, if you know what I mean.
I now wake up every morning looking forward to exercising, dancing, and spending time with my family… No depression, so stress and no more anxiety. I praise God for the peace that is clearly felt in our home!
Thank you so much for everything you have taught me thus far and I look forward to reconnecting with you.
JAN
Not just sex, we made LOVE!! Thank you!
Connection was back in short order… and we didn’t just have sex, WE MADE LOVE!! Thank you!
STANLEY
She thanked ME for making [intimacy] so good!
She was more aggressive than I had ever seen in the past and I thanked her for it. She thanked me in return for making sex so good that she now really wanted more of it. She also thanked me for changing our marriage.
Now, I thank you for being an awesome coach! We will be eternally grateful. You are an answer to several years of prayer.
JIM
Unbelievable to hear someone “at last” understanding what men really want…and [Belah] understands it!!!
Like some of the listeners on the podcast said – it is unbelievable to hear someone “at last” understanding what men really want.
It is not just “sex” it is much deeper than that and she understands it!!!
GAVIN
Refreshing truth.
This sounds dramatic but I feel like this podcast is life changing for our marriages. Belah comes along side us in the most encouraging, open and honest way. Belah gently and firmly cheers us on to pursue everything that is good in our marriages.
CAROL
Great advice for wives
The DYM podcast covers a great spectrum of marriage topics, all from a Biblical perspective. Belah really seams to have an understanding of the needs and desires of a husband. She seems to express the things husbands can’t seem to put into words. Wives – give this podcast a try for the sake of your marriage.
ADAM
SAFE
I was looking for a female’s perspective that was safe for my wife (and me). Belah does a very good job of presenting intimacy in a secure way.
HUBERT
I heard Jesus’s character in [Belah & her husband]…novel in a world we’re so used to sarcasm and selfishness
I listened to a three part series about being peaceful and laid back. As I listened to her husband talk I fell to my knees in tears. I have been teaching men for a long time, and have been thirsting for someone to look up to. Yes, it’s Jesus. But I heard Jesus’s character in these two’s hearts. It was beautiful hearing Bella laugh at and affirm him. I loved it when he spoke so highly and with gratitude of her and listened to her sounds in the background.
Their interactions and emotion while speaking is novel in a world where we are so used to sarcasm and selfishness and calloused feelings about our kids and loved ones.
-William
Life changing
This podcast has changed my view of things in so many ways. I am a husband and I started listening bc I was looking for ways to better my marriage and to live the marriage I have always dreamed of. Belah has a way of explaining things about how men think and act that I couldn’t even explain. She gives credibility to men’s feelings and instincts and actions that give men hope and makes us feel like we are normal and not just some dirty creature.
But, by listening to her various podcasts, I have learned so much more….like how to treat my wife better, how I am supposed to treat her, what she wants, how to effectively make changes in my marriage, how to give, how to take action, how to incorporate faith statements….I could go on and on.
And yet Belah has a humility about her where she clearly knows what she is talking about, but doesn’t act like a know it all. She’s human and she shows that side.
My wife has listened to some at my requests and she told me it really opened her eyes and It all makes total sense but no one ever explained it to her like Belah can.
We have a ways to go, but I have never been more optimistic about my wife and I’s future together.
Thanks you for what you do Belah! You are really doing meaningful work!
-Kevin
Honestly, I have tried everything
that I know how to try and nothing worked. The only thing that has made a difference is listening to Belahs podcasts and getting a little more understanding about my wife and her thought patterns. I’ve listened to numerous podcasts and I don’t think there is anyone who understands intimacy as well as Belah. I have never heard anyone else articulate my thoughts And needs better than Belah, so, I think with the understanding that She has of men and the understanding that she has of women she is probably the only one that can help.
-Hector
Thank you thank you!
God is using you so much. I don’t even think you can begin to know the powerhouse and vessel you are for the kingdom! Thank you for your obedience in ministering the way you do.
Your reward in heaven is going to be HUGE sister and just want you to know what an incredible blessing you are to every ear that hears your podcast and listens to your guests!
Excited to see what’s next. Love you sooooo much!
-JULIANA
Turned our marriage around!
Your (Belah’s) writings have turned our marriage around. I shared with my wife and after an initial “all you want is sex” attitude, she read and really responded to what you wrote. We went from a virtually sexless marriage to at least twice a week of truly enthusiastic lovemaking.
JACK
LIFE CHANGING!
God bless you also! Your ministry is life changing! I pray the world hears you!
MANDY
You are AMAZING! Thank you!
My husband and I have been so blessed by your content and unique way of teaching wives to love themselves and love their husbands. I think every wife needs to listen to your podcasts and episodes.
I will love to work with you and be part of your beautiful ministry. Young wives and marriages need to listen to you. I’ve try to search for answers as to why our intimacy was so plain and now I have this amazing confidence in my sexuality and essence after listening and applying your advices.
I would love to help you spread the word so that a more younger audience can benefit from your content and therefore more young christian and non-christian marriages be blessed and empowered. God bless you, your family, and your ministry!!!
MEREDITH
Next level — extremely beneficial for our marriage
Your podcast was the very first marriage/relationship podcast we ever listened to, and was absolutely critical in us taking the first steps on our road to improvement. I would never want to take a space from someone who has a much greater need or who has not even begun this journey.
However, we have both learned so much from your resources over the years, that I would hate to miss out on further improvement opportunities as I know there are still plenty of things I can do much better as a husband and father.
You have a way of drilling down to the most critical issues and providing actionable steps to take things to the next level…so I know it would be extremely beneficial for our marriage.
JEREMIAH
[He said] “I am COMPLETELY SATISFIED, I WOULDN’T CHANGE A THING” … I almost cried!!!
if there was anything he would like to change in our marriage, or maybe anything I could be doing better. His answer was “Well honey, if you asked the same question a few months back I would have a lot to say… but right now I am COMPLETELY SATISFIED, I WOULDN’T CHANGE A THING” … I almost cried!!!
Our home is simply the best place to be at, our relationship is amazing and we really look forward to our alone time, if you know what I mean.
I now wake up every morning looking forward to exercising, dancing, and spending time with my family… No depression, so stress and no more anxiety. I praise God for the peace that is clearly felt in our home!
Thank you so much for everything you have taught me thus far and I look forward to reconnecting with you.
JAN
Not just sex, we made LOVE!! Thank you!
Connection was back in short order… and we didn’t just have sex, WE MADE LOVE!! Thank you!
STANLEY
She thanked ME for making [intimacy] so good!
She was more aggressive than I had ever seen in the past and I thanked her for it. She thanked me in return for making sex so good that she now really wanted more of it. She also thanked me for changing our marriage.
Now, I thank you for being an awesome coach! We will be eternally grateful. You are an answer to several years of prayer.
JIM
Unbelievable to hear someone “at last” understanding what men really want…and [Belah] understands it!!!
Like some of the listeners on the podcast said – it is unbelievable to hear someone “at last” understanding what men really want.
It is not just “sex” it is much deeper than that and she understands it!!!
GAVIN
Refreshing truth.
This sounds dramatic but I feel like this podcast is life changing for our marriages. Belah comes along side us in the most encouraging, open and honest way. Belah gently and firmly cheers us on to pursue everything that is good in our marriages.
CAROL
Great advice for wives
The DYM podcast covers a great spectrum of marriage topics, all from a Biblical perspective. Belah really seams to have an understanding of the needs and desires of a husband. She seems to express the things husbands can’t seem to put into words. Wives – give this podcast a try for the sake of your marriage.
ADAM
SAFE
I was looking for a female’s perspective that was safe for my wife (and me). Belah does a very good job of presenting intimacy in a secure way.
HUBERT
I heard Jesus’s character in [Belah & her husband]…novel in a world we’re so used to sarcasm and selfishness
I listened to a three part series about being peaceful and laid back. As I listened to her husband talk I fell to my knees in tears. I have been teaching men for a long time, and have been thirsting for someone to look up to. Yes, it’s Jesus. But I heard Jesus’s character in these two’s hearts. It was beautiful hearing Bella laugh at and affirm him. I loved it when he spoke so highly and with gratitude of her and listened to her sounds in the background.
Their interactions and emotion while speaking is novel in a world where we are so used to sarcasm and selfishness and calloused feelings about our kids and loved ones.
-William
Life changing
This podcast has changed my view of things in so many ways. I am a husband and I started listening bc I was looking for ways to better my marriage and to live the marriage I have always dreamed of. Belah has a way of explaining things about how men think and act that I couldn’t even explain. She gives credibility to men’s feelings and instincts and actions that give men hope and makes us feel like we are normal and not just some dirty creature.
But, by listening to her various podcasts, I have learned so much more….like how to treat my wife better, how I am supposed to treat her, what she wants, how to effectively make changes in my marriage, how to give, how to take action, how to incorporate faith statements….I could go on and on.
And yet Belah has a humility about her where she clearly knows what she is talking about, but doesn’t act like a know it all. She’s human and she shows that side.
My wife has listened to some at my requests and she told me it really opened her eyes and It all makes total sense but no one ever explained it to her like Belah can.
We have a ways to go, but I have never been more optimistic about my wife and I’s future together.
Thanks you for what you do Belah! You are really doing meaningful work!
-Kevin
Honestly, I have tried everything
that I know how to try and nothing worked. The only thing that has made a difference is listening to Belahs podcasts and getting a little more understanding about my wife and her thought patterns. I’ve listened to numerous podcasts and I don’t think there is anyone who understands intimacy as well as Belah. I have never heard anyone else articulate my thoughts And needs better than Belah, so, I think with the understanding that She has of men and the understanding that she has of women she is probably the only one that can help.
-Hector
Thank you thank you!
God is using you so much. I don’t even think you can begin to know the powerhouse and vessel you are for the kingdom! Thank you for your obedience in ministering the way you do.
Your reward in heaven is going to be HUGE sister and just want you to know what an incredible blessing you are to every ear that hears your podcast and listens to your guests!
Excited to see what’s next. Love you sooooo much!
-JULIANA
Turned our marriage around!
Your (Belah’s) writings have turned our marriage around. I shared with my wife and after an initial “all you want is sex” attitude, she read and really responded to what you wrote. We went from a virtually sexless marriage to at least twice a week of truly enthusiastic lovemaking.
JACK
LIFE CHANGING!
God bless you also! Your ministry is life changing! I pray the world hears you!
MANDY
You are AMAZING! Thank you!
My husband and I have been so blessed by your content and unique way of teaching wives to love themselves and love their husbands. I think every wife needs to listen to your podcasts and episodes.
I will love to work with you and be part of your beautiful ministry. Young wives and marriages need to listen to you. I’ve try to search for answers as to why our intimacy was so plain and now I have this amazing confidence in my sexuality and essence after listening and applying your advices.
I would love to help you spread the word so that a more younger audience can benefit from your content and therefore more young christian and non-christian marriages be blessed and empowered. God bless you, your family, and your ministry!!!
MEREDITH
Next level — extremely beneficial for our marriage
Your podcast was the very first marriage/relationship podcast we ever listened to, and was absolutely critical in us taking the first steps on our road to improvement. I would never want to take a space from someone who has a much greater need or who has not even begun this journey.
However, we have both learned so much from your resources over the years, that I would hate to miss out on further improvement opportunities as I know there are still plenty of things I can do much better as a husband and father.
You have a way of drilling down to the most critical issues and providing actionable steps to take things to the next level…so I know it would be extremely beneficial for our marriage.
JEREMIAH