Today, my guest is J Parker, Hot, Holy & Humorous!

Scripture/Quote: 1 Corinthians 6:9-11: Or do you not know that wrongdoers will not inherit the kingdom of God? Do not be deceived: Neither the sexually immoral [nor people who do other bad things] will inherit the kingdom of God. And that is what some of you were. But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.

J Parker of www.hotholyhumorous.com has been married for 22 years and has two teenage sons. Her mission is to encourage sex & marriage by God’s design was inspired by her personal story and God’s beautiful nudging.

She shares about the difficult season in her marriage wrought with pain and isolation. But then she shares how she was able to be proactive and make significant changes which became the incredible (and hot!) relationship that it is today!

You’ll Discover:

  • How J had a really hard years of marriage including arguing and bitterness.
  • She remembers the wrench in my stomach as I remember how challenging those years were.
  • Surprisingly, how sexual intimacy was a support while going through the very hard times.
  • Specifically how her marriage changed and the steps they took.
  • Why she didn’t give up on her marriage.

The chief 3 things you feel has been central to her marital success so far?

  1. Align your marriage with Biblical principles: “But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, long suffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control.” Galatians 5:22 & 1 Corinthians 13
  2. Give each other the benefit of the doubt. Give each other grace.
  3. Let more things go.

Tweetables:

    • “If you’re concerned that your marriage is taking too long to get on track, well how long does it take to get your education?”  tweet this
    • “The past was the past and God wanted me to have a fresh start.” tweet this
    • “He wanted me to get right here, right now in this marriage and build what He intended us to have.” tweet this

Be sure to also check out Part II of J Parker’s interview: Episode 3: How Sex Can Be Great For Her Too!