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The definition of a half-truth is “a statement that conveys only part of the truth, especially one used deliberately in order to deceive someone.”

I don’t know that anyone who says these half-truths is INTENTIONALLY choosing to deceive someone. I’d prefer to give everyone the benefit of the doubt.

However, we must look at these beliefs and discern if they are scripturally based.

Certainly, the enemy has deliberately used them to deceive and wreak horrific tragedies in marriages and families.

Unfortunately, half-truths are more slippery and harder to discern than outright (obvious) lies.​

Because we see something that somewhat resembles God’s way, but we haven’t given it the time or held it up to scripture to discern if it is actually aligned.

My hope in this episode is to help you discern truth from half-truths.

• Here are a few we talked about in this episode:
  Duty sex is bad (true… and there are things you should do to change that)
• Women should not feel they have to keep their husbands faithful by offering him sex (true… and she has an opportunity to love him well and fill this God-designed desire)
• Men should not oppress women (true… and he is designated as the leader of the home)
• Everyone fights and it’s normal (true… and the Bible is clear that it is evil)

I hope also you remember as I mentioned in the beginning ANYONE who has spoken these half-truths likely had great intentions.

​​Let’s give them the benefit of the doubt and assume that everyone is trying to help marriages become God’s best… I hope this shines a light on how God Himself designed marriage to be, according to our guide, the Bible.

Let’s have charity and kindness with one another as fellow believers. We are just seeking God’s way above our own.​

 

Love and submission to Jesus,
Belah

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Glory to God for all of it!

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