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513-The Christmas Reset: Peace Over Perfection
(Interview With My Sons)

Christmas can feel magical.
It can also feel exhausting.

If you’re a parent who secretly feels pressure rising as the holidays approach—the expectations, the mess, the emotions, the memories—you’re not alone.

And sometimes, the clearest wisdom doesn’t come from another parenting book or productivity hack.

Sometimes it comes from children.

I sat down with my two sons for a conversation about Christmas. I expected sweetness and laughter (and we definitely had that). But what I didn’t expect was how profoundly wise their reflections would be—for moms and dads who want to keep Christ and joy at the center, even when emotions run high.

May this conversation be a gentle reminder for all of us about what truly matters this season.

The Most Important Thing During the Holiday Season

When I asked my boys what makes Christmas special, their answers were simple:

• Being with family
• Giving and receiving gifts
• And most importantly—Jesus

Isn’t it interesting how easy it is for adults to know that truth, but still lose sight of it when stress enters the room?

Kids seem to understand something we forget:
Christmas isn’t about perfection.
It’s about presence.

Not perfect decorations.
Not perfect meals.
Not perfect behavior.

But hearts that are oriented toward love.

How Christmas Gets Derailed (And What Actually Matters)

One of the most insightful moments came when we talked about what can ruin Christmas.

Their answer? A negative, ungrateful attitude.

And then they surprised me again by pointing out something many parents don’t want to hear: “Adults need to remember this too.”

Children feel the atmosphere of a home.
Even when no words are spoken.

Tension.
Unresolved anger.
Stress that leaks out sideways.

Kids may not understand the details—but they absolutely feel the weight.

And when parents are overwhelmed or snapping at each other, it impacts everything.

When You’re Tempted to Snap at Your Spouse

So, what do you do when you’re tempted to snap at your spouse? Here’s where the conversation turned especially tender.

We talked about parents getting stressed—especially moms who want everything to be “just right” before guests arrive.

And my sons said something profound:

• Take ownership of your emotions
• Don’t take stress out on your spouse
• Walk away if you need to
• Calm your body before speaking

They emphasized taking ownership of the way you choose to respond. We discussed Matthew 12:36 that says, “I tell you, on the day of judgment people will give account for every careless word they speak,”

The win isn’t never feeling frustrated.
The win is choosing restraint, humility, and love in the moment of temptation.

The Gift of Calming Yourself Before You Speak

How do you calm yourself before you lose your temper? They offered practical ideas—simple, doable, grace-filled:

• Take a walk
• Drink cold water
• Take deep breaths
• Step outside or into another room
• Take a long shower with space to think

Not to avoid responsibility—but to prevent harm.

Because once harsh words are spoken, they linger.
And children remember not just what we say—but how it felt to be in our presence.

If You’ve Messed Up Before… There Is Grace

What if Christmas in the past was painful?
What if words were spoken—or wounds created—that still ache?

Their advice?

• Pray
• Go to the person you hurt
• Say “I’m sorry” sincerely
• Ask if there’s anything you can do to repair

And then—trust God with what you cannot undo.

You are not disqualified from joy because of past mistakes.

Keeping Christ at the Center (Without Adding Pressure)

When I asked how families can keep Jesus at the center of Christmas, their answers weren’t complicated:

• A nativity scene
• A meaningful star on the tree
• Praying before meals
• Simply thinking about Jesus

Not performance.
Not religious pressure.
Just intentional reminders.

Sometimes the most Christ-centered thing you can do is slow down enough to remember why you’re celebrating.

Final Thoughts: What Happens After Christmas

The final question: When January comes, how do you want to remember this Christmas?

My boys said: Happy, Safe, Grateful, Hopeful.

Not impressed.
Not exhausted.
Not relieved it’s over.

But filled.

That kind of Christmas doesn’t come from doing more.

It comes from being more present.

If the holidays feel intimidating this year, hear this:
You don’t have to create a perfect Christmas.
You are invited to cultivate a peaceful one.

One where Christ is honored. Where your marriage is protected. Where your children feel safe. Where grace is louder than stress.

And if you feel overwhelmed already—pause.

Jesus came for this kind of moment.

May your home be filled with warmth, peace, and joy this season.

And may Christ—not pressure—be at the center.

 

With love,

The Delight Your Marriage Team

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Transcript:

Belah Rose (00:01)
All right, so I wanted to bring my two sons on this podcast episode because I thought it’d be really cool to talk a little bit about Christmas. What do you guys think about Christmas?

It’s my favorite holiday. Really? You can receive gifts and you can also give gifts. That’s what I really like. Really? It’s your favorite holiday? It’s my favorite holiday. I had no idea. And why do you think Christmas is so wonderful, Jay? ⁓

because

Jesus was born. Awesome, that’s true. Do you guys want to introduce yourself a little bit so the listeners can know who is speaking? Yeah, I’m Jay. Uh-huh. How old are you? I’m 10. And in some days you’re going to be how old? 11. Yeah, not too far from now. How about you buddy? How old are you? My name is Roel.

I’m gonna be 12 in the next year. Yeah. 13 next year. My bad. Okay, so can you share a little bit about what is good about Christmas? You get to hang out with your family.

And sometimes the adults get to drink wine. we, every time like when it’s the like 24th, when it’s in the morning and when it’s, we’re just going to be Christmas, when we wake up.

I, like me and my brother both wake up and we get up early enough so we can open our presents and I really like that. That’s pretty fun, right? What do you think is most important about Christmas?

Me? Yeah. Oh, I thought I said it in the beginning. What do you think is most important? I think. You did. You did actually say it Yeah. What do you think is most important about Christmas? I said it in the beginning. Everyone already said it. Okay. It’s about Jesus. Wait, I said it’s about Jesus. I thought you said it was about gifts. Yeah. Okay. gifts and receiving gifts. And who gives and receives gifts? Us and others. Us and others, yeah. So it’s about Jesus and it’s giving and receiving gifts. Gifts and loving other people. Is that right?

⁓ What can ruin Christmas, do you think? What can mess the whole thing up? A very, very negative attitude and you’re not grateful for your presents. And that really is bad. You cannot like this present, but you cannot show it. You cannot be like, why do you get me this present? It’s such a terrible present. Because that can really hurt somebody because they probably put lots of effort in giving you this present. Probably lots of money. probably they… Yeah, because if you…

Yeah, that’s really insightful thinking about that. We don’t know what went into giving that gift and maybe it’s not the perfect gift. Maybe we would have a different preference. But the truth of the matter is we don’t know what went into that. They might have spent a lot of time thinking about that present. Is that something that kids need to remember and adults or just kids? and adults. Yeah.

Why is it that adults would have to remember that? Because they also sometimes do that. Yeah? How? I don’t know. I can think of some examples. ⁓ go for it. You should dish out the stories.

It was about my dad. ⁓ I really felt really bad because I thought, I know my dad wasn’t trying to say this, but like I got him like this really bright light. And for me, it felt really like bad. Like I got him for his birthday. And to me, I thought it was like brighter than his light. And it turns out he was like taking pictures, like to see which is brighter. And then he kept saying that his is brighter.

like his original one. And so when I was going to do my laundry in my mind, I was thinking that he didn’t appreciate my gift. I’m sorry to hear that. Wow. That must have really hurt your feelings, huh? Yeah. wow. Yeah. You know, I bet if you told him that, he would really appreciate you sharing that with him. I bet he would love to apologize and help you to know that he really appreciated it.

Thank you for sharing that, buddy. Wow. Are there other situations that you think would be? That’s one of them I can think of. That’s one of them, yeah. What do you think about moms and dads, how they can maybe miss the point of Christmas without even realizing it? ⁓ You want to spend time with your child. Because if you’re just getting presents, at the moment it’s going to be happy, and if they break the present, it’s not going be happy. ⁓

Some people spend their time, which I like, is watching a movie. I recommend for older children. probably 10 or 12 would like Mystery and Action. Hudson and Rex, it’s really good. And that’s a family thing too. I also, you could just probably go to the park together or do something like go on an activity.

But you really want your son to really like it. You wanna know if their son likes it. Not like an art show, unless some people like art shows. I don’t like art shows, so. Yeah. Okay, all right. So you’re thinking about things that the family would like or what your children would like. Do you think it would affect the kids if the parents are arguing? Yes. If the kids knew they were arguing and like, well, if the kids did it.

I don’t think it would affect them that much. will because I’ll show. It’ll show? Tell me what you mean by that. ⁓ so if I’m arguing with a person or something like that, and I go to my friend, they’re of course gonna know I was mad because my face is probably gonna be red. I’m gonna be like constantly, ⁓ talking super fast and saying, no, yes, no, and stuff like that. And that’s not a way you want to be. So it’s like other people can feel it, even if they don’t necessarily hear.

Hey, you said that, that, that, but it’s more like, is it a tension that they feel between the mom and dad?

Does that affect if they can keep the main thing, the main thing about Christmas, which is Jesus and loving other people? Yeah. Because if you’re distracted by arguing or tension, then do you think the kids are affected? Yeah. Yeah. Because if they’re like in a bad mood, they could like get the kids in a bad mood. Like one time when I think you and my dad were both like really angry at each other.

Mm-hmm. Wait, no. No, you guys were just really angry. Mm. And then I got upset. Mm. And yeah, that was… So we weren’t angry at each other, we were just angry? Yeah. I think so. Do you remember when it was? No. Was it like Christmas a couple years ago? No, it wasn’t on Christmas. ⁓ But it affects other people when we’re angry. Yeah. Yeah, that’s a great point.

So what advice would you have for a mom and a dad when they’re tempted to get angry at each other? Which, mommy and poppy sometimes get angry at each other. Yeah, everybody gets angry sometimes. What’s some good advice that you would give when a mom or a dad gets angry at each other this Christmas? Because they want to keep the main thing the main thing. But what are some pieces of advice you would give them? So, if you live in New York City and you go to the big tree? ⁓

The rock. Yeah, if you go to the rock and it gets kind of crazy because… ⁓ The Rockefeller Center giant tree. I realize what you’re saying. Okay, yeah. Yeah, if you go there, it’s… ⁓ You don’t want to be like so hasty like some people like to check out the other things. But if you’re like constantly like… Like I do like if…

If you wanna go from another store to another store and check out the stuff. Like, you’re gonna buy it then, okay. But if you’re not gonna buy it and you wanna constantly see other stuff, let other people enjoy it too. It’s not only about you, it’s other people too. Yeah. Wow. See, it’s such a important thing that I think so many of us forget just, okay, it’s not just about us.

Holiday is not just about our own enjoyment, it’s about other people too. So that’s a beautiful insight. What do you think, Jay?

Yeah. Any advice that you have for husbands and wives as they go into the holiday to make sure they keep the main thing the main thing? You could like go to things that are like, like watch movies that are like about Jesus. Like, or Christmas-y. Yeah. And when they’re tempted to anger, what should they do?

when they’re tempted to be angry at each other. They should like calm down.

Yeah, sometimes it helps to take an ice bath.

Okay, there it is. There it is. Other thoughts, other ideas? What else could help in the middle of almost getting angry? You could walk away or go outside like my dad if he’s mad. Darryl, he goes outside and takes a not a too long walk to make you freak out with a walk so you can listen to something. ⁓

Or could just walk in a safe place, not in a hostile environment.

Yeah, that’s a great idea. What are some other things that you can do when you get angry to cool down?

You can take deep breaths. That’s a good one. And drink some water with ice. So what about if a husband and a wife during Christmas, let’s say the people are at their house and they’re getting ready and they want to make, or the people are coming to their house and they want to get ready and make everything nice and beautiful and clean. But what if they are just going to fight with the mom and the dad? like let’s say

I’m the mom. A lot of times ladies want the house to look beautiful and perfect and Christmassy and then people are coming over so the moms sometimes get stressed and then they yell at the dads. And I’m sure that never has happened ever. Ever. With us. Ever. Never. Never. Right boys? Just never. It’s a perfect family. Perfect family! That’s just what I thought you were gonna say.

What should I have done? If that’s ever happened, what should I have done? Or, yeah, what are your insights about, is it okay for a wife to just get stressed and yell at the dad? What do you think?

no, no, you don’t wanna, you don’t wanna go all out. It’s not, it’s not your husband’s fault. It’s not your fault either. It’s actually your fault, but. Because you invited all the people. Because you invited all the people.

Thanks

So take some ownership for your own emotions, right? Because otherwise… Yell at yourself in your room. Yell at yourself in your room.

Fair enough. Fair enough, buddy.

What else were you going to say? Well, I was going to say, if it is your husband’s fault, just don’t yell at him because he’s probably going to yell at you. then you guys are going to yell at everyone. then not everyone, you guys are going to yell at each other. Even though it’s a soundproof room, people can still understand your mood once you come out. And no one’s going to have a fun party or fun theme. Yeah. Yeah.

And they can feel it, don’t you think? They can tell if things are tense. And then they have less enjoyment. Plus the kids know for sure, right? Well, if they’re just playing video games or watching something, probably not. Maybe the kids don’t know. But like, if they’re like full time with you guys, What do you think, Jay? What do you think of if mom is getting stressed while people are gonna come over? Don’t take it out on other people. And like, if…

Like what he said that if you’re going to take it out on someone else, don’t. And just act as if it was your fault, even if it wasn’t. I guess you could probably know it’s someone else’s fault, but don’t be screaming at them.

or like getting really angry at them, like physically. Yeah, that’s powerful. Yeah, to your point, you might even know it’s their fault, but to realize, wait a second, I have an opportunity to respond to this the right way. Maybe they did the wrong thing, but I can respond the right way. For example, go for a walk, relax, go in your room and yell at yourself. Yell into a pillow. Or take a shower. Take a shower?

Sure, that definitely helps. It kind of changes your state, wouldn’t you say? Yeah, but just don’t listen to music or anything because you have to have time to think. Think and process stuff. And take a long shower. It’s a short shower, one, two, three, and I’m out of the shower. It’s not going to help anything. That’s just going to make you wet and make you wear more clothes and more laundry. So, yeah.

I like that. You want to make that time count because up in heaven you’re going to be judged for the way you control things, the way you… ⁓

process things in your mind and if you have violent thoughts.

Don’t have them for the whole day. Even though some people do. Just try your best not to thoughts of hurting people. Yeah, even though you’re not gonna do it, but you have thoughts of that. They’re violent thoughts and they’re not good thoughts, so just don’t say them. You know, and it’s interesting. I think different people have different kind of temptations in their thoughts. Sometimes it’s violence, sometimes it’s for some…

moms and dads, it’s did I marry the wrong person or that person’s so lazy or ⁓ I you know don’t like this thing about them or this thing or that thing and to your point we need to realize wait a second the Bible says to think of others as better than ourselves so when we’re thinking all these bad things about our spouse to say wait a second I need to think about my husband as better than myself or I need to think about my wife as better than myself even when I’m really really upset.

You said something else that I thought was really important. ⁓ that we’ll be judged for every careless word we say. That’s what the Bible says. We will be judged for every careless word we say. So I think that’s so powerful because if we can take ourselves out of the situation and get ourselves to calm down without having careless words that harm somebody else, that’s the win, right?

Any other things that you would say that would be helpful for a husband or a wife? Around Christmas. Around Christmas time. So, if it’s snowing and you’re feeling very upset and you go with somebody else, there are high percent chances you’re gonna throw snow at them. And it’s gonna cause more conflict. So just don’t do that. ⁓ I was thinking those were like a good…

I was thinking it was good things too. But like, you know, sometimes things can cause conflict. if you’re upset and the other person’s also upset, you don’t throw a snowball. Or don’t taunt them that they’re like heavy or anything. Why do you think, okay, why do think that would be a good thing? I’m just curious. I’m thinking that throwing snow at somebody, like you could like, instead of like causing conflict, I’m thinking more like having fun. Yes. Like playing a game.

Yes. So you’re saying that even if you’re upset at each other, what if you started doing something that would make you have fun and play a game together? So give me, yeah, go ahead. Yeah, but look, hear me. Okay, I’ll hear you ⁓ out. If both of you guys are mad at each other and one of you throw a snowball and you accidentally headshot them, that’s not gonna be fun, because it’s gonna go inside like through neck and it’s gonna feel cold and you’re gonna be mad at the person.

So once you’re happy, you can throw a snowball but nowhere above here so that it doesn’t hit them in face. You don’t want them in the face. Yeah, that’s a good point. Unless you’re in a whole tournament. That’s when you can hit them in the face because… Snowball tournaments, that’s allowed in the rule book there. Okay, fair enough. Fair enough. ⁓ Okay, so having fun helps when you’re angry. Doing something to Yeah, like getting your mind off it. ⁓

Does that help to do something that you have fun where that person is not there? You are yawning up the wazoo. That is a lot of yawning. No, it’s okay. What is it? Any final things about husbands and wives when they are tempted to be upset at each other around Christmas? What would you say?

So there’s something you don’t want. I’m not saying, I’m not trying to be funny, but some people, they have candy canes. And if you have a person that gets hyper when they have sugar, you don’t want to have that in the night because that can ruin the whole family’s night. if child or adult or parent, some parents get really hyper and they are alert, they…

They can also be impatient with you. Even though some people are patient. They can turn up impatient. If you have something that you know will affect you. Like if you have like, I’m saying in general because any sugars or something that you know will affect your mind. ⁓ Don’t take it. Especially if you’re in the night because you’re bad asleep and some people sleep.

Oh yeah. apologize to them. I can just wake up and say, oh, that conflict’s yesterday. I don’t have to deal with it today on Christmas day. Oh, yeah.

Especially if you’re on Christmas Eve or anything like, if you’re on the week of Christmas and you do something and you know the week is gonna be affected because of that, it’s just not gonna be a fun week. Cause you know they’re gonna constantly say stuff about you. And one more thing that you don’t wanna do on Christmas is you do not want, you don’t wanna like, like if you’re eating, you do not want to like, or like wherever you are in your house, you don’t wanna… ⁓

Like act annoyed. Like I’m saying to the people who are going to receive the presents. So if you’re, if someone’s saying like, let’s take a video to say thanks to someone, just do that because the other person who gave you the present is going to feel happy and want to give you more presents. That’s a good thing. And so if you don’t have the patience to say, want to that, I want to open my presents right now, then things get bad because you’re not, your parents are.

parent or child is gonna say, and mostly children are gonna say, but I wanna open my presents, I wanna open my presents. And you don’t wanna be so mad right before you open your great big gift. I think this is very helpful, helpful thoughts. And how would you recommend people stay focused on Jesus? Are there any specific things that you think people should do to make sure that Jesus stays at the center?

Yeah, well, on our Christmas tree, we put, like, you know how people usually put stars on theirs? My mom made this star where it was like a… Eight-pointer star. It was like another star in what they’re supposed to follow to where they were going to find Jesus when he was born. The wise men?

Yeah. And the sheep, the shepherds? Yeah. Well, my mom made one of those and we put it on the top of our Christmas tree instead of like putting just a five-pointed star on it. ⁓ Yeah, that’s a good reminder. Also, you could decorate your house like Jay said. You can decorate your house with some people put wreaths. Like we put a wreath, but maybe if you want to act extra like extra Christian and if you’re not Christian then.

⁓ You could put a cross as their thing with like a whole like wreath and then a cross or you could decorate your house like the what is it called? It’s like a stable and then there’s Jesus and there’s an angel and then Yeah, you could decorate your house with like crosses. Yeah Yeah, the nativity scene. nativity. Mm-hmm. Yeah Should they be

Reading certain things from the Bible, do you think? You can pray before eating. ⁓ Even if you don’t, just think about Jesus while you’re eating. Yeah, yeah, those are good. Any other things? No, ⁓ here’s another question. What about if people have made mistakes in the past around Christmas and they feel really bad about it? What do think they should do?

Don’t make those same mistakes. about, for example, you know, people have been married maybe 20, 30 years and maybe they’ve had really hard choices that they’ve made around Christmas time. Should they, is there anything they should do about it? Well, they could like pray about it and like, if it’s like something that’s really, if it’s like something that’s really,

If there’s something that’s like, that they really are so guilty about it and like they’re not thinking that God can like just like say that you’re forgiven, they could like really prey on it. Like if they think it’s a really bad mistake. And also you can also forget about it. So you can like just forget about it. Just forget.

You could also ask… This is where you have to get money. could also ask two things. You could go to therapist and talk to them about something, which does not help. I don’t think so. But you could also get your memory thing removed. You could just get it removed. And then you won’t be able to remember it. But what about the other person? What if the other person still feels hurt about it? Remove it from that. Remove it from both of your memories.

You know, that’ll fix it. I’m confident that’s all we need. Where do we go to get that memory? ⁓ surgery, okay. Well, let’s say we can’t find the person who can remove Do it yourself, do it yourself. Okay, okay, all right. Well, since we haven’t found that technology yet, what’s another option if there’s another person that’s hurt by things that we’ve done in the past? Apologize. But, yeah.

Or you could apologize at the moment before that. yeah, you could apologize before When it happened. No, we’re almost done. What about, If the person… Yeah, go ahead. If the person’s still affected by it, and like, like where you think you did a mistake, and like you could give it to God, but then also go to that person. Like you might feel like not that bold to do it, but you could still go to that person and…

still like say, I’m sorry. Yeah. Like they still might be really hurt by it, but like still. At least you’ve done what you need to do to see if you can help repair. Also you can ask them, are you still hurt by this? Like, is there anything you would like me to do if you still are? If they say no, then they’re not, then you’re good. But if they say yes, then you have to exonerate. ⁓

And you have to do… ⁓

You have to do a sure apology for them. And that really helps. Even if they may not know what the sure apology is, just do a sure apology. yeah. That’s good. Cool. So what are you most looking forward to this Christmas? Just for you guys? Just so I know? What are you excited about? What’s your goal? You’re like… Five things. Okay. Like five…

of my goals. getting a pocket knife. ⁓ Getting a pocket knife. A good one. Like an actual good one. an, I how to say this. Okay. I’m looking forward to getting two big Lego sets, ⁓ which I know are going to come to me. I’m so sure. I’m looking forward to.

four packs of

from what’s it called? Mozzarella cheese. The actual good one. up just packs, four packs. Fair enough. Yeah, the good ones. Okay. And then the other thing I’m looking at is like $500,000. Oh wow. Wow. Okay. that’s even more. $500 million. Oh wow. Wow. Okay.

So instead of this family being a millionaire, you will be a millionaire. You’ll just be a millionaire. Jay, what are your goals for, and I don’t mean, I mean, it sounds like one of goals are just presents, but I mean goals for Christmas time. You thought I was talking about your wish list. Oh, okay, got Yeah, I was gonna say like getting my entire wish list done and going on a skin.

Going ice skating! ⁓ yeah, yeah, yeah. gonna be my brother’s birthday in like, days. But yeah, I’m also looking forward to going ice skating. Yeah, I think in four days. Awesome. So if you look back on Christmas, what are the feelings you wanna have? Like let’s say, let’s say in January you’re like, that Christmas is so wonderful because I felt this and this and this. I felt happy, I felt safe, I felt grateful. Ooh, I like that. How about you, Jay?

I felt happy, excited, and…

Hopeful. Hopeful, I love that. I love that. So processing our feelings the right way will help us be happy, safe, hopeful, and grateful. I love it, and excited. All right, guys, well listen, who wants to pray for the husband and the wife listening? You wanna pray first, Raul, and then Jay can pray? Okay. Okay, go ahead, You wanna pray first? ⁓ Yeah. okay. Lord, thank you that me and Jay.

are able to be on this podcast. And thank you that the people who are listening hopefully will be changed by this. And please let everyone be fed this winter, every homeless man, and be like, not like, or be like, let them not be hot or too cold. them be just right.

Please let many people receive good presents. Yeah. And also, please let everyone’s Christmas go very good. Please let everyone be happy and grateful. Let this not be a very scary winter.

snowstorms or tsunamis which is strange in the winter but ⁓ yes yes please let everyone be just right in temperature and then like health and and in gifts yes

Yes Lord, and I’m going to pray that everyone who’s like feeling like they don’t, that no one can forgive their mistakes, that they will know that like God can and loves them and that Jesus was born here on earth, so.

He could forgive us. Lord, I pray that.

today and every day, everyone will feel happy and not stressful and thankful. Amen. Amen. Amen. All right, guys, thanks so much. Any final thoughts? Anything else? All right. Have a safe, happy and great Christmas and marriage. C-G-I-H. ⁓ No, wait. C-G-H.

Have a great, happy Christmas and marriage. I love it. Anything else from you? All right, bravo.