that I know how to try and nothing worked. The only thing that has made a difference is listening to Belahs podcasts and getting a little more understanding about my wife and her thought patterns. I’ve listened to numerous podcasts and I don’t think there is anyone who understands intimacy as well as Belah. I have never heard anyone else articulate my thoughts And needs better than Belah, so, I think with the understanding that She has of men and the understanding that she has of women she is probably the only one that can help.